People who misuse others often fear public and try to get rid of their victims or hide them from people

People who misuse others often fear public exposure because it threatens their:

• Power and Control:

  • Public exposure of their actions can diminish their power and control over the victim.
  • It can damage their reputation and social standing.
  • It can lead to legal consequences, including criminal charges and potential imprisonment.

• Avoidance of Accountability:

  • Public scrutiny can force the abuser to face the consequences of their actions.
  • It can expose their harmful behavior and prevent them from continuing to abuse others.

• Maintaining the Status Quo:

  • If the abuse occurs within a system of power (e.g., workplace, family, religious institution), exposing it can disrupt the existing power dynamics and threaten the abuser's position.

• Fear of Retribution:

  • Abusers may fear retaliation from the victim or others who become aware of their actions.

• Shame and Guilt:

  • Public exposure can bring about feelings of shame and guilt, which the abuser may try to avoid at all costs.

It's important to remember that abusers often employ manipulation and control tactics to maintain their power and silence their victims.

If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please reach out for help. There are resources available to support victims and hold abusers accountable.

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
• The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) ¹